Work is a place of resource for many people. It gives us a sense of purpose, much needed structure, brain stimulation, contact with others, and income for our needs and wants. Work can also be stressful. That’s ok too. Our systems can handle temporary stress, whether it is meeting a deadline or giving a scary … Read more
I remember 10 years ago training in Internal Family Systems and using it for myself and for my clients. It wasn’t a technique that was on many people’s radar. But I found it very helpful personally as well as professionally. It was great to have a positive silver lining for all the parts of us that … Read more
Break ups can be very hard. It is normal to experience feelings that change a lot. People describe an emotional “whiplash,” with feelings changing every hour. You may miss her and romanticize what the relationship was. Then an hour later you may experience anger at her and remember all the bad parts of the relationship. This kind of whiplash is normal but can be uncomfortable.
So, you have traits of ADHD (attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder). Welcome! In recent months the number of people reporting traits of ADHD in my practice has increased considerably. While a clinical counsellor cannot diagnose ADHD (you’d want to see a family doctor, psychiatrist or psychologist for that) what they can do is support you in your … Read more
Do you find yourself easily thrown off? If something goes wrong at work are you ruminating for days or weeks? If you don’t get a text returned do you feel so hurt that you can’t study, go to the gym or even get out of bed? Making space for feelings is important, yes. In recent … Read more
Let’s do a check-in: Are you where you want to be in life- Financially? Romantically? Parenthood- or Career-wise? If yes, great. If not, what’s gotten in the way? Two actions need to be practiced to get to living the life you want. First is knowing what your goal is. And that takes defining what you … Read more