Keeping Up the Passion in a Marriage

Are you and your partner feeling more like roommates than romantic partners these days? Are you going through the motions of playing house but not feeling very physically or even emotionally connected? It can be confusing and even frustrating for couples when they experience this kind of disconnect in their relationship. Especially when they can … Read more

Why Am I Finding Relationships so Anxiety Provoking or Irritating?

Everyone finds relationships challenging at times. You’re not alone! But there are different ways these challenges present and also different degrees of challenge. Are you someone who feels ok when not in a relationship but as soon as you’re in it your overthinking starts up? (1) Is your overthinking more on the anxious side? For … Read more

Feeling Stuck or Not “In Love?”

Are you feeling stifled in your relationship? Not sure if you are in love anymore? Having an increased frequency of arguments? You might be in the stage of your relationship where you are negotiating your needs with your partner’s needs. Couples Experts Ellyn Bader and her partner Peter saw over 50 thousand couples in the … Read more

Sex and Relationships

Are you having trouble maintaining physical intimacy in your relationship? It’s normal to have seasons in a relationship where intimacy goes up or down and it can be comforting to know that. However, when those seasons go on too long members of the couple can feel stuck. Differing preferences in frequency of sex can be … Read more

Doing relationship after trauma

  A lot of us have experienced some trauma in our lives. Trauma is commonly defined as an event that left us feeling helpless, hopeless or in horror. Sometimes we think we’ve worked through it. Then we end up in a relationship. In the beginning it’s good. We are doing well on our end. But suddenly … Read more